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  1. Kabukichoatmidnight

    lol just go. I've been to a few shows on my travels around Japan and I never had any problems. Just kept myself to myself, did get talking to a few people but it wasn't weird or anything. Weirdest thing is the whole experience of the VK gig when you're used mainly to going to death/black metal shows within Europe. Very different vibes. haha.
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    Yeah saw something about some "Auction" system or something.... But tbh I didn't really read it properly as aren't so bothered considering I live nowhere near Japan and wont be going. πŸ˜›
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    Actually love this! Glad they are back!
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    lol There are two More's?!
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    Unfortunately not by the looks of it, got a notification on LINE detailing news on a 2nd Anniversary oneman show.
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  7. That's a tricky one, depends how long "long distance" is. In your case it sounds like you're not in reasonable travelling distance. If you're only a few hours away then yeah you can just keep as much contact as needed and meet up whenever it's convenient, spend a few days together or whatever... But if realistically you can't meet up, at least often then I guess I'd just have to say that you got to follow your heart and soul and go with whatever feels most right to you. This doesn't only apply to long distance, I mean, if you live with someone and then get strong feelings for someone else and want to be with them then I guess as much of a dick you may be to your current partner, maybe you should move on to that person if you're genuinely feeling happier around that person. Relationships are trial and error and in my opinion if you get feelings for someone else when you're with someone then the person you're currently with isn't fully satisfying your needs in some way. It may not be because there is anything wrong with that person, but sometimes our feelings just change and ultimately you should end up with someone who ticks all the boxes, gives you what you need and should be completely satisfied with to the point you don't get feelings (at least to the point where it confuses you) for anyone else. Of course, you may still click with people or think they're good looking but if you truly love your partner would you want to leave them? Or risk hurting them by cheating on them or anything like that? The answer should be no, but I tend to go with the belief that you have to do what's best for you, and doing that you will hurt people along the way so only you can decide what's right for you really.
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    I guess the bottom line seems to be that you're mum still love your brother as her son, which is natural being a mother and all. I watched a documentary once where a guy was locked away for sexually abusing his mother (in a pretty gross manner as well), yet, she forgave him, still loved him and still visited him regularly in "prison". So guess that maternal bond just often comes before anything else. From what you've said I can take a guess at what his crimes are and can totally understand why you and your siblings wouldn't want to have anything to do with him. Regardless of what it is, if someone is abusing other people (or animals even!) in any sense, sexually, using violence, mentally or all three and more then whether you're related or not I don't see why there is an obligation to accept them. I guess it kind of depends how often you see him, is it easy to disassociate? Or because of your mum being blind to his negative actions, you still have to see him a fair bit? If the second one that's very awkward and guess you can just try to keep out the way, even just chilling in your room whenever he's around or anything. But yeah there's no reason anyone in your family should accept him because your mum does and at the same time I don't think there is any way to change your mums opinion of him either. Think about how hard it is to change yourself, you think you can change someone else? It's nearly impossible so not even worth trying, you can express your views of him sure, but expecting your mum to change and think the same way you do, just isn't going to happen I don't think.
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    Am in the same kind of boat there, not necessarily had failed relationships but have had a few "things" that have all gone a bit chaotic in recent years since I came out of my 7 1/2 year relationship. But also a key factor for me is that I have real trust issues which only seems to be getting stronger as time goes on. But yeah the more you invest in people emotionally the more you're setting yourself up to be hurt later so avoiding any such situation does seem better for yourself.
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    I personally like the intelligent/classy types. Not geeky/dorky but those girls who are super pretty but you can tell they come from a well off background but are also super smart and successful themselves. The type of lady who would support me through the shittiest times, someone that you can talk about literally anything with and not be judged for it and have deep conversations with about some really abstract subjects. That's basically enough for me, not asking for too much am I? πŸ˜›
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    No UK date.... Sad days. But I have a mate who lives near Cologne so maybe will get something together....
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    This is so amazing. haha. I kind of love how cheap it looks as well, like something that would appear on those "worst cosplay" pages. πŸ˜› But I get the feeling you're not meant to be taking it too seriously so all good. But yeah, loving it. haha.
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    I would love to see Sena without makeup and see what the transformation is like. He seems to love himself far too much in makeup, so just wonder if there's a reason for that. haha.
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    Do agree it's getting a bit repetitive as well. That said, I still liked it, just not as much as I may have done if it was the first Jiluka song I ever heard. Also, thought it was pretty amusing how in the video Sena seems to be trying to make up for the lack of androgynous looks of the other three guys by himself. I'm surprised he didn't get the fake boobs out again. haha.
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    Well as long as there's a UK date I'm in.
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