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Komorebi last won the day on July 11 2019

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  1. There is nothing I hate more than men complaining/commenting about my VK related posts on MY own social media. Or any other girl's by that matter. 

     

    Does it hurt your ego that we talk about prettier men? Do you feel intellectually superior for "only following them for the music"? Does it affect your life if we want to discuss a member's attitude on their twitter or a hairstyle after we are done discussing their skills? Do you feel your manliness questioned if you happen to be seen discussing such frivolities with female fans? 

     

    We don't go around complaining about men's obsession with cars or sports and we don't ask them to stop talking about basketball because it annoys us.

    1. YuyoDrift

      YuyoDrift

      With a majority of topics, not just this one, depend on each individuals mindset.

      Understanding why it bothers them, and incorrectly choosing to make it a big deal, is entirely up to them.

      Regardless of their reason imo.

      It should not be something to rile you up though.

       

      Take for example my opinion on this matter.

      I personally don't have an interest in the each bands life, outside their career (music), and it's a decision that I choose to make. I live a busy lifestyle, and their music is how I respect them. Now if that bothers someone, that's on them.

      I don't feel intellectually superior (I'm not sure to who I'm comparing myself to actually), but I feel that the band's hard work (if it actually sounds good that is) is something that I prioritize in my admiration for the band from my reasoning.

       

      What I feel about people who do enjoy talking about the band members (whether male or female), should not matter, whether positive or negative. Being a fan of VK, I understand that the scene has more female fans than male by a big margin.

      I think logically, and I take into consideration peoples feelings or experiences with said subject, and then decide that whatever opinion I may have, is better left unsaid if negative.

      I chose to not partake in these discussions, and I expect those who do talk about it, to respect my decision, and not make me feel bad for it.

       

      Your comment about not being a fanboi of cars or sports, proves my point.

      You (I'm not sure who you mean by "we" as I know a few fans of VK and cars) chose to not partake in discussions regarding cars, or sports, and most people (men and women) must respect it.

      Those who don't, and let it get to them (or failure to understand), should be none of your concern.

      It's their own thoughts they need to address, not yours.

    2. platy

      platy

      I'm really interested in the aesthetic/artistic side of things but on the other hand I don't know much about musical terms / techniques athough I fucking love listening to music. I feel like I get judged a lot for being a "" superficial fan """ since I often make comments about band members and their looks. sigh People should be allowed to like both lol

    3. Komorebi

      Komorebi

      @platyI feel lots of dudes talking about guitar riffs online never actually held one and are probably just trying to sound cool and not being called "superficial".

      I feel you, I know nothing about music theory and composition, yet I wish I knew more :/

       

      Yuyo, no need to get so triggered xD

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