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Question. An 18 year old goes skinny dipping with a 14 year old in the family pool in the backyard. Parent wakes up and tells them to get out. 18 year old is heard telling the 14 year old "If you say anything, I will beat your @$$" Parent gets suspicious and checks the security footage of the backyard to find out they were skinny dipping. Should this be acceptable or not considering the 18 year old is legally an adult and the 14 year old is not. Even though nothing was visible on camera that they had done anything... would this cause worry or concern?
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Well if both parties are male, it becomes even weirder, doesn't it. Your anger is definitely justified, but I'd explain that, if it applies to where you live, your family member might be charged with sexual misconduct or something along those lines (IANAL).
Edit: Yep, that sentence definitely makes it more suspicious. Also the fact that the younger party apparently doesn't think too much of it.
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Both parties are male. I explained that to him. I said that even if they didn't do anything, the fact that they were naked in a pool together... all that 15 year old has to do is say he was threatened to do so.... like my brother JUST turned 18... and I don't think he gets how much that effects what he can and can't get away with. But also... regardless of his age... THAT'S JUST WEIRD. AND AT 3AM IN THE MORNING.
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Going by the sentence, he's definitely aware of what he's doing and that he shouldn't be doing it. Keep an eye on him, show him your local laws, explain to him what can happen to him. Tell the parents of the 15 yo to keep an eye on their child as well. Don't know if you should tell them what happened, they could sue. But on the other hand, if their boy has no problems being this close to people, it could cause problems sooner or later...
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